After a
few tough weeks at Haile Selassie High School, we get ready for the worst when
we walk into Metcalfe Street Secure Juvenile Centre on Monday June 2nd. This facility is the only transitional facility
for boys awaiting sentencing in Jamaica.
This means the boys here come from all over the country and aren’t here
for a long period of time. Metcalfe is a
sort of purgatory where boys arrested for crimes stay while they await a court
date.
We arrive
early to sort out details of the course, get a tour of the facility, and find
out more about the boys we’d be teaching.
We learn many things in the 1-hour.
First, according to the superintendent, the boys at Metcalfe have
committed every crime you can think of – this really gives us the warm fuzzies!
The thing we found most fascinating is
that some of them have been turned in by their parents and held for being
‘uncontrollable’. Parents can have their
children arrested if they are considered uncontrollable - if their children are
not obeying them, not going to school, staying out all hours of the night,
demonstrating reckless behavior, etc.
You see, in Jamaica, if a child is hurt or gets killed, the parents are
liable (even if they are not the direct cause of the injury or death). So, in order to protect themselves from being
liable for the child hurting himself or getting himself killed through reckless
behavior, the parents have him arrested under this ‘uncontrollable’
charge. We couldn’t believe this! Truth is stranger than fiction!
The
facilities at Metcalfe are the best we have seen to date…much better than any
of the other prisons and certainly better than Haile Selassie High School. The facility has manicured lawns and gardens,
well-painted buildings, a small gym and even a small farm. The government opened this new facility in
2011 as a response to public outcry on the poor care that juvenile offenders
were receiving from the state. There was
a terrible incident back in 2009 in which 7 juveniles died at a state-run
facility and it generated a great deal of negative publicity and pressure on
the government to improve conditions.
According to our experiences, Metcalfe was something like the Ritz
compared to all the other facilities we had visited so far and the ratio of
staff to inmate boys was substantial. The
facility even had a computer lab which we haven’t seen anywhere else (not even
schools). Nevertheless, being aware of
the attention spans of most teenage boys, much less juvenile delinquent teenage
boys with literacy and other social issues, we were unsure about how this class
would go.
As we
do more and more of this work, it is amazing how all our experiences just
contribute to our growing faith…faith in the value of what we are doing, faith
in the goodness in all people, and faith that love and compassion can move
mountains of any size. We begin the
class explaining why we are here. We
talk about having left everything back in the states, giving up our time and
money to be here with them and genuinely wanting them to have a better
life. We express we want nothing from
them, we only want to give them something that may help them live better lives
and be happy. And then we ask them to
give us their full commitment to be there and participate in everything for the
next 5 days. And much to our surprise, they
commit.
We can
see that many of them have not received this kind of care and they are craving
it. As the days move from one to the
next, the boys enjoy themselves, they put their full effort into all things and
we experience hardly any disciplinary issues at all. Now, granted, there are officers in the room
to maintain order. But even then, the
amount of cooperation and respect we received, really surprised us. When we asked one of the officers how he thought
the class faired, he said that he had not seen the boys respond in this way –
“there was 100% participation, complete participation.” He further commented there were many
organizations that came to Metcalfe but could not capture the boys’ attention
and solicit their participation. This
was a good sign.
As the
week continued, all we could see before us was a room full of sweet kids who
were starved for some attention and affection.
They walk in with smiles and ready to do what we ask. One day, it was one of the boy’s birthdays -
Romario commented that he came into class rather sad because no one came to
visit him on his birthday, but he left feeling happy for the first time that
day (the super heard this and was stumped for words). A few of the boys had missed a day of class
because they went to court. When we
spoke to one of them named Nickoy about how the court day went, he was
despondent. It seems his mother never
showed up, so the court didn’t hear his case.
He now has to stay at Metcalfe longer while he waits for another court
date and hopes that his family shows up.
Hearing these stories, the compassion in us grew more and more. These boys were simply a product of their
environment. When we thought about how
preciously our children are treated (and the children of most of the families
we know) it broke our hearts to see how many of these children were being
neglected and even abandoned by their families.
These boys (only 12 – 17 years old) seemed so lonely and lost. A few of them asked why we weren’t coming on
Saturday and we looked at each other and responded, “now we are.” They
gravitated to us and latched on because they starved to experience even the
smallest amount of unconditional love. Some
say it is luck, some say it is karma – to be born into the lives and families
we are born into. Either way, we
couldn’t help but feel that these boys deserved better.
We also
feel blessed to have experienced this week with them. The YES program is amazing in short, it gives
so much to these kids including bringing smiles to their faces and we feel
lucky to be the ones delivering it.
3 comments:
so inspiring to hear of the many places YES! is helping. Best wishes to the entire team!
Your blog is beautifully written. I really admire what you are doing and am glad to be reading about your experiences. Please keep the posts coming.
Your work is so inspiring-thanks for all that you are doing.
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